I'm not rich enough to be working class, but I definitely relate to your bifurcation. I was training to be an elite writer, because I completed my PhD and wrote book chapters and journal articles. However, I encountered sexual harassment and ended up a working class writer.
I gotta be honest, Adam. I see that you are happily married to your wife and I think, this is not my guide. I need the women on TikTok who have been in narcissistically abusive relationships like me to talk to me about what it is like to date a psychopath. It just isn't the happily married guy.