As a woman, I remain silent in my relationship about the things I don’t like sexually that are drawn from my husband’s porn influence. I figure it is yet another of the things we are supposed to endure as part of our gender roles. Just as an example, and yes it is gross, but I have to go there. I do not like being sprayed in my face with ejaculate. But I have to pretend to like it because it is sexy for my husband and it is sexy for my husband because he is conditioned from porn.